Thanksgiving for Americans is a time to appreciate all we have, rooted in historical traditions that date back to the country’s inception, including the customary turkey meal and harvest themes. It stands out as a holiday focused on food, family, friends, and love, without the exchange of gifts.
For those unfamiliar with the holiday, Thanksgiving is a U.S. national holiday celebrated on the fourth Thursday of November. Many people take both Thursday and Friday off, making it the most significant occasion for family gatherings in the USA. The days leading up to it are marked by the busiest travel period of the year, with airports nationwide experiencing a surge in traffic.
Traditions vary, but it’s common for families to gather for an early dinner around 3 p.m.
If relatives live nearby, it’s not unusual for people, particularly young married couples, to visit multiple households throughout the day to spend time with extended family.
In our family, we begin preparing for the meal by shopping early in the week. The feast typically includes turkey, stuffing, mashed potatoes, gravy, cranberry sauce, green-bean casserole, dinner rolls, ham, and pumpkin pie. It’s ok but not expected for guests to bring various items, from wine to homemade dishes — everything is welcome.
On the eve of Thanksgiving, the women in our family enjoy a new craft (like making tree ornaments they all work on together, but separate), for Christmas, while the men might visit the casino or watch TV. The holiday day itself is relaxed, often featuring NFL football games and ample time for eating, chatting, or dozing off on the sofa. We all sit together for the meal and make jokes or take a moment to say something they are thankful for — depends on the guests as no one wants to be awkward. And yes, turkey sandwiches later that night are a post-celebration treat!
Speaking of later that night, most are aware of Black Friday, the kickoff to the Christmas shopping season. It once meant flocking to stores at midnight for the best deals, a practice that’s dwindling due to online shopping. Yet, some still brave the cold, queuing for hours for in-person bargains — a feat I personally avoid!
Above all, Thanksgiving is a time for fun, reflection, and gratitude — even if unspoken. I’m grateful for the community at Skew, the friendships formed, and the opportunities presented. I’m also mindful of those who may find this time of year difficult due to loneliness, family dynamics, relationships, or hardships. I wish them happiness.
While others may approach Thanksgiving differently, this is how we do it! Acknowledging my own blessings, I hope you too feel blessed this holiday season and beyond.
Happy Thanksgiving!
